5 Things to Do Before Scheduling Your First Therapy Session

Deciding to seek out therapy is a significant step. It marks the point where you may recognize that:

  • You need or want assistance (which takes real courage and self-awareness)

  • You may not be able to navigate this situation as skillfully as you would like

  • You have been feeling stuck and are ready to make progress towards your goals

Scheduling your first therapy session can feel intimidating or overwhelming. If you're considering therapy, taking some essential steps before scheduling your first session can help you have a more positive and rewarding experience. Here are 5 tips to help you prepare for your first therapy session.

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  1. Identify Your Goals

    Before scheduling your first therapy session, take some time to think about what you hope to achieve through therapy. Do you want to manage anxiety or depression? Improve your relationships? Work on personal growth? Understanding your goals can help you choose the right therapist and guide your therapy sessions.

  2. Do Your Research

    Finding the right therapist is essential for a successful therapy experience. You may want to ask for recommendations from friends or family members, or you can search online on Therapy Den or Psychology Today for therapists in your area. Look for someone who specializes in the issues you want to work on and who has experience helping people with similar concerns.

  3. Check Your Insurance Coverage

    If you plan to use insurance to pay for therapy, it's important to check your coverage before scheduling your first session. Many insurance plans cover therapy, but there may be limitations on the number of sessions or the types of therapy that are covered. If a therapist you would like to work with is out of network, look into reimbursement. Check out our guide here. Be sure to understand your benefits so you can make an informed decision about your options.

  4. Prepare For The First Session

    The first therapy session can be nerve-wracking, but preparing for it can help ease some of the anxiety. Write down any questions you have for your therapist, including what to expect from the therapy process and how to set goals. Be honest and open with your therapist about your concerns and goals, and remember that therapy is a safe and confidential space to explore your thoughts and feelings.

  5. Be Patient With The Process

    Therapy is not a quick fix, and progress may take time. Give yourself the space and time you need to work through your concerns. Remember that therapy is a collaborative effort between you and your therapist, and trust in the process can lead to positive outcomes.


Therapy is a powerful tool for personal growth and healing, and it's never too late to start your journey towards mental wellness. Taking these steps can help you feel more confident and prepared as you begin your therapy journey.

To start the process at Botaitis Therapy Group, schedule a free consultation call by filling out the form here or contacting us at 805-636-9890 or info@botaitistherapygroup.com. We will help guide you through this process and match you with a therapist that fits your distinct needs.

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